
“I’m talking to my brothas and my bristas, but I know that all of y’all can hear me.”
Sexual Healing explores relationships, sexuality, health, and wellness from a Black, male, cisgender, same-gender loving, 40-something, intelli-ratchet perspective. Each episode gives you information to help you to live your best life while making sure that your sex and love games are on-point.
Dr. Pouquie possesses a Ph.D. in Psychology, but he is NOT a licensed therapist. He’s a researcher with a gift for presenting complex information in easy to understand bits.
Your host dreamed of becoming a cross between a Black, male Dr. Ruth and comedian Mother Love. Despite no pursuing this dream professionally, he has spent more than 20 years providing counsel to family, friends, acquaintances, and neighbors on airplanes.
Folks love to share their secrets and anxieties with him. And he loves to talk about sex and relationships.
Your host was named Dr. Pouquie by two beloved sistahs that he met during his doctoral studies. Two more fabulous sistas that he met during a trip to New Orleans gave him the final push to start this show.
Darkboy cohosted the first 40 episodes of the podcast until he departed to start a homegoods business. Since that time Dr. Pouquie has sought to make this podcast and some other allied content the best that they can be.
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Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him
Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy? Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He...
PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!!
Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone. Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content...
Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie
Episode 56 Bald-Headed Hoochie This was the mating call of the scruffy stranger. Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from...
Episode 55: A Hot Minute
Episode 55 A Hot MinuteJust dropping in for a few minutes. Resources Myths about the Sexual Assault and Rape of Men Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide Can men be raped? Yes, they can. Dr. Pouquie gets into the hows and whys to explore this...
Episode 54: Yes, Men Can Be Raped
Episode 54 Yes, Men Can Be Raped This episode Dr. Pouquie explores rape myths Resources Myths about the Sexual Assault and Rape of Men Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide Can men be raped? Yes, they can. Dr. Pouquie gets into the hows and whys...
Episode 53: Sex Positivity
Episode 53 Sex PositivityBlasphemous blowjobs lead to a larger discussion of sex positivity. Resources Eva Taylor Grant on Embracing Sex Positivity 12 Post-Tumblr Spaces for Sex-Positive Queer Men by Alexander Cheves Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About...
Episode 51: Professional Purpose and Blasphemous Blowjobs
Dr. Pouquie discusses how to push past your comfort zone and live into your great potential. He also talks about a certain viral video wherein a preacher's son is providing oral services behind his father's pulpit. While a blowjob is a blowjob, does it become...
Episode 50: Daddy Issues
In honor of Father's Day, Dr. Pouquie reflects on his never-boring relationship with his father. Talk about raw and vulnerable.
Episode 49: Got Trauma?
Episode 48: Take Your Damn Meds!
This week Dr. Pouquie sits down with members of the Southern California chapter of Black and White Men Together to discuss mentorship and intergenerational relationships within LGBTQ communities.