At times we reminisce and wonder how we got through our ho phases, sketchy tricks, and questionable decisions. Sex was a scary thing for many of us as children of the ’80s. As young adults in the ’90s, sex was far more complicated and mentally exhausted than we needed it to be. Dr. Pouquie shook off the shackles in the mid-90s and threw his boxer briefs in the air; whereas, Darkboy was just getting started and found the water to be warm enough with a few hazards.

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