The guys get into the politics of dating within and outside of your league. Is there such a thing as a “league” or is it all in our heads? Perhaps it comes down to dating people with whom we connect regardless of the window dressing. Sometimes it is best to know and appreciate yourself. The right guy will let you know what draws him to you and keeps him coming back.


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