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“I’m talking to my brothas and my bristas, but I know that all of y’all can hear me.”

 eSexual Healing explores relationships, sexuality, health, and wellness from a Black, male, cisgender, same-gender loving, 40-something, intelli-ratchet perspective. Each episode gives you information to help you to live your best life while making sure that your sex and love games are on-point. 

Dr. Pouquie possesses a Ph.D. in Psychology, but he is NOT a licensed therapist. He’s a researcher with a gift for presenting complex information in easy to understand bits.

Your host dreamed of becoming a cross between a Black, male Dr. Ruth and comedian Mother Love. Despite no pursuing this dream professionally, he has spent more than 20 years providing counsel to family, friends, acquaintances, and neighbors on airplanes. 

Folks love to share their secrets and anxieties with him. And he loves to talk about sex and relationships.

Your host was named Dr. Pouquie by two beloved sistahs that he met during his doctoral studies. Two more fabulous sistas that he met during a trip to New Orleans gave him the final push to start this show. 

Darkboy cohosted the first 40 episodes of the podcast until he departed to start a home goods business. Since that time Dr. Pouquie has sought to make this podcast and some other allied content the best that they can be.

Got questions? Love to hear folks sort through mess? Want to eavesdrop on informative, raunchy, and irrevernt conversations? This is the show for you.

Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him

Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him

Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He...

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PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!!

PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!!

Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content...

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Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie

Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie

Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

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Episode 55: A Hot Minute

Episode 55: A Hot Minute

Episode 55 A Hot MinuteJust dropping in for a "few" minutes. Resources   Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide Just a quickie that turns out to be not so quick because y'all know that I can talk.Related Episodes

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Episode 54: Yes, Men Can Be Raped

Episode 54: Yes, Men Can Be Raped

Episode 54 Yes, Men Can Be RapedThis episode Dr. Pouquie explores rape myths  Resources Myths about the Sexual Assault and Rape of Men Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide Can men be raped? Yes, they can. Dr. Pouquie gets into the hows and whys...

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Episode 53: Keep Your Sex Positive

Episode 53: Keep Your Sex Positive

Episode 53 Sex PositivityBlasphemous blowjobs lead to a larger discussion of sex positivity. Resources Eva Taylor Grant on Embracing Sex Positivity 12 Post-Tumblr Spaces for Sex-Positive Queer Men by Alexander Cheves Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This...

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Episode 52: (Trans)Men = Men

Episode 52: (Trans)Men = Men

Episode 52 Transmen are Men!!!Repeat after me, "Transmen are men." That's all. Let's not complicate things. Resources   Share Episode Twitter Facebook InstagramAbout This EpisodeDid ya know that “woman” and “man” are socially-constructed terms (i.e., gender)? The...

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